Welcome Friends from Frolic!

Hello new friends!

This is a special invitation to join the play party community I run in San Diego, California. We host parties every other month, some big (70-80 ppl) and some small (25-35 ppl). Some parties have altered states, some are in the complete dark, and some are during the holidays where we do cute things like White Elephant Gift exchanges. We’re like one big kinky family.

The best way to know about the parties is through the email list, which you can sign up for below. I’ve also created two Telegram groups, one is an announcement group (only one-way communication) and the other is the “Play Party Lounge” where folks from my community get together to talk about all things related to being the kinds of weirdos we are. You are welcome to join both, if you join the Play Party Lounge I encourage you to say hi and introduce yourselves so people know who you are.

Play Party Email List


Telegram Groups

Telegram Play Party Lounge:

Telegram Announcement Group (only I can post, for essential info only):

About Me

This is also my blog, so you’re welcome to browse my writing, or just visit my about me section. I started running play parties in 2016 and I’m always available to answer any questions via email at davebooda@gmail.com

About Money

This is an important topic, and I’d like to take a minute to explain my thought process around running sex parties and charging money.

First off, I want attending the parties I throw to be a privilege, not something that can be bought. Too often in the world of sex parties the organizer is unduly influenced by money, because it’s easy to create a really hot party, then allow creepy folks to pay you a lot of money to be there. I’m not here for that!

To mitigate this tendency I do a few things:

  1. I don’t rely on money from events for my basic income needs. At the end of the day, this is an essential piece that helps me not act from a place of need.
  2. I charge what I consider a “reasonable” amount of money, given the expenses for the party. Typically for an evening party at someone’s house, I charge $20-40 a person. For the Roman Orgy or larger budget events the price has ranged from $50-120.
  3. No one is turned away for lack of funds. If you’re in some kind of financial struggle, I get it. I’ve been there. Let me know and I’ll do whatever I can to cover your fee.

I hope this helps explain my process, and if you have any questions please ask. I’m also happy to share the financials for any of the parties I throw, I typically track everything on spreadsheets, cause I’m kinky like that.