Play Party Info

Hello friends!

You’ve arrived here at this page because someone invited you to join our play party community. Hooray! Please take the time to read this whole page, and if you have any questions you can email me (Dave) at

Below is the form to be added to the email list for these parties. I don’t use social media for the parties, so the only way to hear about them is via this email list or through the Telegram announcement group.

Play Party Email List


Telegram Groups

In an attempt to not use Facebook, I’ve begun using the app Telegram (a secure messaging app) to give folks a way to digitally gather together before and after parties. It’s also an easy way for me to make announcements and send important info.

I recommend downloading the app (if you haven’t already) and then joining the two groups (play party lounge & announcement group).

Telegram Play Party Lounge:

Telegram Announcement Group (only I can post, for essential info only):

About Me

If you don’t know me, you’re probably thinking — who is this guy? It’s a valid question. This is also my blog, so you’re welcome to browse my writing, or just visit my about me section. I started running play parties in 2016 and I’m always available to answer any questions via email at

About Money

This is an important topic, and I’d like to take a minute to explain my thought process around running sex parties and charging money.

First off, I want attending the parties I throw to be a privilege, not something that can be bought. Too often in the world of sex parties the organizer is unduly influenced by money, because it’s easy to create a really hot party, then allow creepy folks to pay you a lot of money to be there. I’m not here for that!

To mitigate this tendency I do a few things:

  1. I don’t rely on money from events for my basic income needs. At the end of the day, this is an essential piece that helps me not act from a place of need.
  2. I charge what I consider a “reasonable” amount of money, given the expenses for the party. Typically for an evening party at someone’s house, I charge $20-40 a person. For the Roman Orgy or larger budget events the price has ranged from $50-120.
  3. No one is turned away for lack of funds. If you’re in some kind of financial struggle, I get it. I’ve been there. Let me know and I’ll do whatever I can to cover your fee.

I hope this helps explain my process, and if you have any questions please ask. I’m also happy to share the financials for any of the parties I throw, I typically track everything on spreadsheets, cause I’m kinky like that.